Nurture, Receieve, Renew

2-Day Event

May 18-19, 2024
Santa Cruz, California
Watch this video to learn about this 2 Day Transformational Journey!

What will happen when you release the old, and expand your capacity to receive the love & nurturing you deserve?

What Does it Mean to Receive?

We seem to be busy all the time, pushing for some elusive result or goal, we believe when we reach it we will feel satisfied, but it’s a sinister treadmill, we never reach nirvana. All this struggle has us feeling burned out, stressed out, and maxed out. We are lacking the inner reserves required to feel energized and vibrantly alive. What are we running to? And more importantly… what are we running from?

The Exquisite Unfolding of Nowness

The running stops when we become more present to ourselves in this moment. Can others help us dive more deeply into what’s present here and now? In this moment? We believe they can. When others embody acceptance, interest in what’s emerging now, and love that nurtures, magic can happen… We open our hearts and feel whatever we need to feel to lower our walls and we become receptive. We may need to feel our anger, our sadness, the grief of loss that we have not grieved, the love for another we’ve been afraid to feel, we even shy away from feeling the Joy and celebration of success.

What is Renewal?

Renewal happens when we feel through those emotions we’ve been stuffing away. When we land more fully in our truth. When others “get us” where we are and as we are without trying to change us.

This rare space of interest and absolute acceptance allows us to move through whatever we need to move through to renew.

With renewal comes another level of energy and vitality. We can meet and connect with others more fully and chase our dreams. We see in new ways and the world opens to us.

This is the intention of this event. That you come out renewed!

Your 2 Day Transformational Experience


Relational Playground - Circling and skill practice on Tuesday nights in Santa Cruz, CA

Day 1: Self Exploration, "Circling", & Expanding Our Capacity to Receive


On day one we will practice relational skills and dive into the first couple rounds of “Circling” a practice where one person gets the attention of the circle and they are mirrored, revealed to themselves, and seen in new ways in a loving accepting container.

In this day we start feeling into expanded states of consciousness and do Gestalt Based Experiments for Spontaneous Healing. You might find on this day that you access the divinity within and surrender into states of deeper connection and oneness. Buckle up! This can be a ride!


Day 2: Integrating Shadow & Touching Oneness


 During day two we do a round of Shadow/Light Integration. We explore our darker aspects, embrace the unembraceable, and integrate that which we have held as “horrid” within ourselves. We give ourselves the opportunity to “be with” our full self, while also allowing ourselves to be nurtured throughout the process.

We do this knowing it brings wholeness, builds compassion, and allows us to find, and be renewed by, our inner light.


Included Bonus!

Gain instant access when you register for the event:

Evolvers' Community on a Laptop

The Connection Experience: DEEP DIVE Enneagram Panels


This is a full set of nine Enneagram panels. Each video focuses on a particular Type and is 90-120 minutes

Evolvers' Community on a Laptop

Bonus Program: Foundations of Circling


In this four part training Ben and Kerena explore the practice of circling and tech many of the subtler nuances that bring the practice to life!

You learn the four primary skills, the principles it is grounded in that create safety and trust, the ways to totally screw up a circle, and the how to minimize the chances of triggering people ego defenses as the space deepens.

Your Investment

The cost for this event is $1,000 but you can save $400 now! The first 20 people to register will be offered the price of $600!

At the current moment this discount IS available.

This page will be updated when the first twenty discounts have been used.


If you are ready for this transformational adventure, register now for our two day cooker!


What if I can’t make the entire event? Can I attend some sections but not others?

This event is a group journey, it is a step by step process and builds in intensity over the two days. If you need to take 20 minutes for a phone call or something and step outside we understand. But if you will be missing over an hour on any day we ask that you find another date and attend the event later when you can be present for the full ride!

How do I discover my Enneagram Type?

You can take an online assessment, talk to one of our coaches and do a “Typing Interview” or watch the videos where Ben describes the nine types and notice which makes you the most uncomfortable (if any make you feel like you want to throw up that’s probably your type!)

Was I born with my Enneagram Type or is it something I developed over time?

Basically you were born with your type and then trauma got it stuck in place. We go into this in more depth in our Soul Support community.

How does the pricing work?

We offer a specific number of seats at each level of pricing. When all the seats are taken at that level the price goes up for the next group of seats. We want you to make the investment now so you get to dive into the content and start your journey of transformation immediately!

What is the refund policy if I find out that I can’t make the event?

We ask that you transfer your ticket to the next live 2 day event that we offer. We offer a few events each year. To make the change email and we will help you out.

Do I get access immediately to the bonus?

Yes! As soon as you get signed up we will email you access codes you can use to watch the Enneagram Panels and to start your circling training. 

“After doing shadow work with Ben, I brought in over $165,000 in sales at my 3-day event, I asked for (and got!) double the offered advance on my new book and, for the first time ever, I’m actually saving 20% of my income each month. Best of all, I feel more open, relaxed and confident than ever before.”

Samantha Bennett

"Ben Saltzman has established himself internationally through his world renown year long program "Relational Mastery" Ben is a highly sought out individual who truly adds value to others through his extraordinary coaching methods."

Bob Proctor

​"​Change is when we learn a new skill or useful new information; transformation is when we reorganize at a deeper level, a new platform for a whole new approach to lifelong learning and growth. You'll get both with Ben Salzman. The work is immediately practical and ultimately spiritual -- new connections, new capacities, new power and freedom in living.​"​

Gordon Wheeler
President, ​Esalen Institute, Big Sur, California