An Extraordinary Life

This is an invitation to step into year two with TNT and again take a deeper plunge into your own healing and transformation, into building relational skills and deepening with community, and into surrendering layers of type in service of the evolution of your soul.

Stepping Into Leadership

I encourage you to take a step into leadership in this community and develop the leadership skills so you can lead in other communities with more grace and confidence. We need you in leadership at this time in history.


This will include modeling the skills and principles we align behind, and helping people see when they are acting outside of our guidelines and how they can do it better. It might mean circling individuals or groups of 2 or 3 to help them resolve conflicts or issues.


Led by Ben Saltzman:

I’m a stand for deepening connections, heart openings, and your spiritual evolution.


What You Will Get When You Join

“An Extraordinary Life”

Meetings With Ben

Each month you will have access to three meetings with Ben. You can ask questions and get feedback on the advanced skills in any of these meetings. Two of the meetings will be our regular “Soul Support” sessions. We are adding a third session in each month for people in Relational Mastery (year 1) and An Extraordinary Life (year 2).

My commitment is to getting you enough time to get questions answered and engagement with the advanced material. If we get a large group in the third monthly session and time is feeling tight, we will open a fourth monthly session to meet your needs.

Virtual Events

We will have two virtual events each year. They will include two (2 hour) sessions and then a two-day virtual event with circling and shadow work. These are for advanced students and the public. Advanced students will get their own time with each other and Ben before or after the event. 


In-Person Events

There will be two optional 3-day in-person events in Santa Cruz, CA each year that are open to the public. Advanced students will be able to attend for a discounted rate. These events will also include self exploration, circling, shadow work, and experiments for spontaneous healing. These will be open to the public. Advanced students who attend will have time together with Ben the day before the event.

Many people have found that they enjoy renting a house with their pod when they come to Santa Cruz for the live events! We encourage this kind of bonding!

Virtual Workshops

We will have two half day workshops each year. This year the first workshop will be story telling for impact and influence. You will learn how to bring your stories alive, how to add humor, how to pull people into your stories to create compelling narratives that teach and entertain.

The second workshop will focus on how to design your own transformational prayer that addresses the specific issues you are facing in your own life and supports you in surrendering layers of type to connect more deeply with the divine within.


Video-based Modules will be released each month with Reality Bending or Advanced Level Relational Skills and Frameworks.



Your pod will be about 6 people. You will meet twice a month for 2.5 hours so you can get in two full circles and/or skill building or self exploration.

The Investment

We have dropped the investment significantly to make it easier for people to attend. It is now only $97/month for 12 months, or save some money when you pay $997 now for the full year.

The optional in-person events are an additional $200 each. If you choose to attend, you’ll also get in-person time with Ben the day before the event.

Program Start Date

The kick off is April 25th when 2022 the first Modules for an Extraordinary Life are released!

We will start a new pod every time 6 people sign up and are ready to jump in! Please register now and get started. As soon as you register you can start attending the group sessions with Ben. 


Ongoing Work

If you choose to continue with us after An Extraordinary Life is complete you can continue to pay $97 a month and continue receiving everything that is listed on this page above.

Please Join Us For An Extraordinary Life!

Your investment is only $97/month for 12 months.

You can save and pay $997 now for the full year.
Our Commitment To Diversity And Inclusion

We value diversity of Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation, Ethnicity, and Socio-economic background. We understand that when there is a rich diversity of thought and experience in the room we create relationships that bring our world together.

Because of our commitment to Diversity & Inclusion we have a need based scholarship for people with marginalized identities including: LGBTQIA, Black, Indigenous, Latino, and other People of Color.

We are also committed to providing a safe, brave, loving, and affirming space for people of all identities.

Our scholarship program operates on a trust based system. If you’d like to take advantage of this offer of 50% off our regular pricing, use the coupon code “DIV50” when you make your payment.

“After doing shadow work with Ben, I brought in over $165,000 in sales at my 3-day event, I asked for (and got!) double the offered advance on my new book and, for the first time ever, I’m actually saving 20% of my income each month. Best of all, I feel more open, relaxed and confident than ever before.”

Samantha Bennett

"Ben Saltzman has established himself internationally through his world renown year long program "Relational Mastery" Ben is a highly sought out individual who truly adds value to others through his extraordinary coaching methods."

Bob Proctor

​"​Change is when we learn a new skill or useful new information; transformation is when we reorganize at a deeper level, a new platform for a whole new approach to lifelong learning and growth. You'll get both with Ben Salzman. The work is immediately practical and ultimately spiritual -- new connections, new capacities, new power and freedom in living.​"​

Gordon Wheeler
President, ​Esalen Institute, Big Sur, California